8 Reasons Your Online Messages Aren’t Resulting in Dates- eHarmony

Many of my relationship coaching clients ask me what they might be doing wrong when their online dating messages don’t result in dates or when someone they were messaging with goes completely MIA. They also share what turns them off in messages from potential partners and keeps them from accepting dates.

While the online dating process may feel confusing and out of control, you can take positive and intentional action to ensure you are sending high-quality messages online and avoiding common online dating/messaging mistakes.

For a list of eight reasons your messages aren’t working and advice on how to send messages that will result in dates, click here to check out my latest article, written for eHarmony.

Take care,

Rachel Dack, MS, LCPC, NCC


Welcome to Rachel Dack Counseling LLC’s blog, written by Rachel Dack, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (L.C.P.C.) and Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). Rachel provides psychotherapy and dating support/relationship coaching services to individuals and couples in her Bethesda, Maryland office and over the phone.

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